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t still all day and watch one’s breath。 Every move; every thought; every word can give rise to understanding oneself。
接受自己(5)
This kind of work on oneself will bring about deep inner security; which is rooted in reality。 Most people are wishing and hoping for this kind of security; but are not even able to voice their longing。 Living in a myth; constantly hoping or being afraid is opposed to having inner strength。 The feeling of security arises when one sees reality inside of oneself and thereby the reality in everyone else and es to terms with it。
The contemplative life is often lived heavy…handedly。 A certain lack of joy is pensated for by being outgoing。 This doesn’t work。 One should cultivate certain light…heartedness; but stay within oneself。 There’s nothing to be worried or fearful about; nothing that is too difficult。 So we need a light…hearted approach to our own difficulties and those of everyone else; but not exuberance and outpouring。 Rather a constant inwardness; which contains a bit of amusement。 This works best。 If one has a sense of humor about oneself; it is much easier to love oneself properly。 It’s also much easier to love everybody else。
We sometimes think we can portray something we are not。 That is not possible。 People generally try to show themselves off as something better than they really are。 Then; of course; they bee disappointed in themselves when they fail; and equally disappointed in others。 To realistically know oneself makes it possible to truly love。 That kind of feeling gives the light…heartedness to this job in which we’re engaged; which is needed。 By accepting ourselves and others as we truly are; our job of purification; chipping away at the defilements; is made much easier。
喜歡自己多一些(1)
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