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e　who　need　to　enforce　authority；　and　you　will　struggle　with　them　until　you　learn　the　lesson　of　obedience。　txt小說上傳分享

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You　will　continually　attract　the　same　lesson　into　your　life。　You　will　also　draw　to　your　teachers　to　teach　you　that　lesson　until　you　get　it　right。　You　may　try　to　avoid　the　situation；　but　they　will　eventually　catch　up　with　you。　The　only　way　you　can　free　yourself　of　difficult　patterns　and　issues　you　tend　to　repeat　is　by　shifting　your　perspective　so　that　you　can　recognize　the　patterns　and　learn　the　lessons　that　they　offer。　To　face　these　challenges　means　you　need　to　accept　the　fact　that　something　within　you　keeps　drawing　you　to　the　same　kind　of　person　or　issue；　though　that　situation　or　relationship　may　be　very　painful。

The　challenge；　therefore；　is　to　identify　and　release　the　patterns　that　you　are　repeating。　This　is　no　easy　task；　since　it　means　you　have　to　change；　and　change　is　not　always　easy。　Staying　just　as　you　are　may　not　help　you　advance　spiritually；　but　it　certainly　is　fortable　in　its　familiarity。

Rising　to　the　challenge　of　identifying　and　releasing　your　patterns　forces　you　to　admit　that　the　way　you　have　been　doing　things　isn’t　working。　The　good　news　is　that　by　identifying　and　releasing　the　pattern；　you　actually　learn　how　to　change。　In　order　to　facilitate　your　process　of　change；　you　will　need　to　learn　the　lessons　of　willingness　and　patience。　Once　you　master　these；　you　will　most　likely　find　the　challenge　of　dentifying　and　releasing　your　patterns　far　less　intimidating。

The　real　secret　to　being　able　to　change　is　the　willingness　to　do　so。　If　you　are　to　make　any　progress　in　excavating　yourself　from　the　cycles　that　entrap　you；　you　must　first　identify　the　patterns　that　keep　you　stuck。　Then　you　can　begin　to　release　the　ol